Successfully Repairing Your Relationship

Successfully repairing your relationship is not about doing a lot of hard work, it's a process. We've learned that after helping over 50,000 couples. This system is about doing the right things, BUT more importantly, doing them in the right order.

Many people do good things, but in the WRONG order, which can hurt your relationship more than help.

For example, consider talking about the details of the affair.

I know for a fact that couples who discuss the details of the affair have a better chance of survival. . . but did you ever consider the RIGHT TIME to talk about the details (it's NOT right after you discover the affair)?

Here's why. . .

When your spouse drops the bomb of their affair, it is one of the most shocking and devastating experiences you can go through. You feel overwhelmed, humiliated and gutted.

The mental and physical pain can be too much to bear.

Because of the intense pain you're going through, talking about the details at this stage will only make things worse unless you go through the Individual Healing Phase.

This phase protects you personally from crippling emotional pain.

One other thing... we've learned that most couples experience a regression in their relationship after they discuss the details unless they go through the Individual Healing Phase.

That is why you need to heal yourself first... before you communicate or try to rebuild your relationship.

If both of you are emotionally prepared, you can quickly recover, thus making the experience healthy.

This is why I show you how to talk about the details after I've empowered you to take control over your emotions in the first phase of Dr. Gunzburg's 3-phase healing system.

If you have Dr. Gunzburg's program, you already know about phase one and how liberating it is... Phase 1 is your first step to feeling normal again (in just a few weeks).