How To Survive an Affair
Hello,
this Eric from Marriage Sherpa and I want to help enhance your healing by
answering a few important questions about Dr. Gunzburg's program How to survive
an Affair .
If you
are considering using this program, you probably have these questions I'm about
to address. Please take 3 minutes to read through each one as I provide an
answer to your most important questions that will help your healing process.
1. What
will I get when I order How to Survive an Affair?
We ship
the program plus the workbook in the mail and you should receive it within 5-7
business days if you live in the U.S. Average shipping time outside of the U.S.
is 10 days.
In
addition to shipping it directly to you, we also give you immediate access to
our membership site so you can download the material and begin reading section
one today.
The main
program takes you through the three critical phases of the healing process, and
the companion workbook allows you to track your progress and personalize the
process to your particular situation by taking advantage of a range of
healing-focused exercises.
They work
if you implement them. In addition to the main program and companion healing
guide, you'll receive Dr. Gunzburg's two bonus programs, What to Do If You've Been Cheated On and How to Save Your Relationship if You've Cheated.
These two
emergency reports should be the starting point for both the injured spouse and
the spouse who committed the affair.
2. How
effective is the program?
How to
Survive an Affair is the number
one selling program online. We've sold over 20,000 copies since 2004 and
have close to 1,000 testimonials from real couples who've used the program to
save their marriage.
This
program isn't light material. Dr. Gunzburg's program is serious medicine that
goes right to the heart of healing a relationship after an affair. There is a
very specific protocol for solving the emotional challenges, communicating with
each other, resolving the relationship problems and setting the stage for
honesty and forgiveness.
Every
section of the program was carefully designed after 35 years of counseling
couples, and the program was built from the principles of cognitive behavioral
psychology.
It's
designed to be followed as a system. That means, you'll start with section one
and progress at your own pace. Each section is designed to help you graduate to
the next level and the companion healing guide will help you track your healing
and personalize the process to your circumstances.
3. What
types of problems is How to Survive an Affair designed to solve?
While
most books on infidelity identify the problems the affair creates, Dr.
Gunzburg's program is designed to be your self-help guide to personalize
the healing process and solve your problems. In addition, Dr. Gunzburg's
program is structured for the injured spouse and the cheating spouse: It
speaks to both and provides step-by-step instructions.
There are
three specific phases to healing. The first helps you, the injured spouse, heal
first. That is the most critical initial step. The second phase shows both
spouses how to begin working through the tough issues and the third phase is
all about rebuilding a new relationship.
It's a
dynamic program that can be followed at your own pace. For every major problem,
there is a solution, exercise or a realistic objective that you can apply
either to yourself, with your partner or directly towards improving your
relationship.
The
program was designed to produce results if you follow the steps. Here are the objectives of each phase:
Phase I:
Individual Healing - Understanding Personal Feelings and Sorting through
Emotions
- Get in touch with your pain.
- Process your painful emotions.
- Clear your mind and own your thoughts.
- Overcome obsessive images about the affair.
- Rebuild your self-confidence, self-trust and self-respect.
- Healing program for the cheating spouse.
- End the affair.
- Become transparent and rebuild honesty.
- Ask for forgiveness.
- Create a heartfelt apology.
Phase II:
Healing As a Couple - Working Together to Identify and Resolve Key Issues
- Analyze the 10 critical dimensions of your relationship.
- Coming into agreement over the relationship.
- Healthy communication.
- Meeting each other's needs.
- Building six pillars of stability.
Phase
III: Negotiating a Renewed Relationship - Understanding How to Rebuild and
Sustain a New Trust-filled Partnership
- Accepting the past and move on to a brighter future.
- Have fun again.
- Restore the intimacy.
- Write your personal marriage contract.
- Affair-proof your marriage for life.
4. Is the
program just for the injured spouse or the spouse who committed the affair?
What's
unique is that the program speaks to both individually. Dr. Gunzburg provides a
very clear protocol for ending the affair. If that hasn't happened, the first
step for the cheating spouse will be to read section three and end all ties
with the paramour.
A very
critical component to the healing process is understanding the pain the
cheating spouse has caused their partner. In most cases, it is very difficult
for someone to communicate this in an effective way.
We've
seen many relationships see very dramatic improvements simply when the cheating
spouse reads section 1 and 2. Dr. Gunzburg paints a very realistic picture of
what an injured spouse is going through.
After
they are exposed to the reality of the pain they caused, this opens a huge
opportunity to heal the relationship and set the stage for rebuilding.
5. Money
is tight, is there a payment plan?
How to survive an Affair is a comprehensive program and workbook that is shipped
directly to your door. In addition, you can access our membership site and
download extra copies of the workbook.
You can
choose to use our single-pay option, or you can make 4 easy monthly payments.
Another
critical point to consider is our satisfaction policy. We offer a 90-day review
period. That means we want you to use the program.
If you
don't see dramatic results in just 90 days, you can send it back and we will
issue a refund to your credit card.
We are
committed to helping you find the love again.
Please use this link to read more about the programme. If you are ready to order,
simply scroll to the bottom of the page and click either of the two ordering
options.
Wishing
you hope and healing for your marriage,
Eric...
