How To Survive An Affair

 How To Survive an Affair

Hello, this Eric from Marriage Sherpa and I want to help enhance your healing by answering a few important questions about Dr. Gunzburg's program How to survive an Affair .

If you are considering using this program, you probably have these questions I'm about to address. Please take 3 minutes to read through each one as I provide an answer to your most important questions that will help your healing process.

1. What will I get when I order How to Survive an Affair?

We ship the program plus the workbook in the mail and you should receive it within 5-7 business days if you live in the U.S. Average shipping time outside of the U.S. is 10 days.

In addition to shipping it directly to you, we also give you immediate access to our membership site so you can download the material and begin reading section one today.

The main program takes you through the three critical phases of the healing process, and the companion workbook allows you to track your progress and personalize the process to your particular situation by taking advantage of a range of healing-focused exercises.

They work if you implement them. In addition to the main program and companion healing guide, you'll receive Dr. Gunzburg's two bonus programs, What to Do If  You've Been Cheated On and How to Save Your Relationship if You've Cheated.

These two emergency reports should be the starting point for both the injured spouse and the spouse who committed the affair.

2. How effective is the program?

How to Survive an Affair is the number one selling program online. We've sold over 20,000 copies since 2004 and have close to 1,000 testimonials from real couples who've used the program to save their marriage.

This program isn't light material. Dr. Gunzburg's program is serious medicine that goes right to the heart of healing a relationship after an affair. There is a very specific protocol for solving the emotional challenges, communicating with each other, resolving the relationship problems and setting the stage for honesty and forgiveness.

Every section of the program was carefully designed after 35 years of counseling couples, and the program was built from the principles of cognitive behavioral psychology.

It's designed to be followed as a system. That means, you'll start with section one and progress at your own pace. Each section is designed to help you graduate to the next level and the companion healing guide will help you track your healing and personalize the process to your circumstances.

3. What types of problems is How to Survive an Affair designed to solve?

While most books on infidelity identify the problems the affair creates, Dr. Gunzburg's program is designed to be your self-help guide to personalize the healing process and solve your problems. In addition, Dr. Gunzburg's program is structured for the injured spouse and the cheating spouse: It speaks to both and provides step-by-step instructions.

There are three specific phases to healing. The first helps you, the injured spouse, heal first. That is the most critical initial step. The second phase shows both spouses how to begin working through the tough issues and the third phase is all about rebuilding a new relationship.

It's a dynamic program that can be followed at your own pace. For every major problem, there is a solution, exercise or a realistic objective that you can apply either to yourself, with your partner or directly towards improving your relationship.

The program was designed to produce results if you follow the steps. Here are the objectives of each phase:

Phase I: Individual Healing - Understanding Personal Feelings and Sorting through Emotions

• Get in touch with your pain.
• Process your painful emotions.
• Clear your mind and own your thoughts.
• Overcome obsessive images about the affair.
• Rebuild your self-confidence, self-trust and self-respect.
• Healing program for the cheating spouse.
• End the affair.
• Become transparent and rebuild honesty.
• Ask for forgiveness.
• Create a heartfelt apology.

Phase II: Healing As a Couple - Working Together to Identify and Resolve Key Issues

• Analyze the 10 critical dimensions of your relationship.
• Coming into agreement over the relationship.
• Healthy communication.
• Meeting each other's needs.
• Building six pillars of stability.

Phase III: Negotiating a Renewed Relationship - Understanding How to Rebuild and Sustain a New Trust-filled Partnership

• Accepting the past and move on to a brighter future.
• Have fun again.
• Restore the intimacy.
• Write your personal marriage contract.
• Affair-proof your marriage for life.

4. Is the program just for the injured spouse or the spouse who committed the affair?

What's unique is that the program speaks to both individually. Dr. Gunzburg provides a very clear protocol for ending the affair. If that hasn't happened, the first step for the cheating spouse will be to read section three and end all ties with the paramour.

A very critical component to the healing process is understanding the pain the cheating spouse has caused their partner. In most cases, it is very difficult for someone to communicate this in an effective way.

We've seen many relationships see very dramatic improvements simply when the cheating spouse reads section 1 and 2. Dr. Gunzburg paints a very realistic picture of what an injured spouse is going through.

After they are exposed to the reality of the pain they caused, this opens a huge opportunity to heal the relationship and set the stage for rebuilding.

5. Money is tight, is there a payment plan?

How to survive an Affair is a comprehensive program and workbook that is shipped directly to your door. In addition, you can access our membership site and download extra copies of the workbook.

You can choose to use our single-pay option, or you can make 4 easy monthly payments.

Another critical point to consider is our satisfaction policy. We offer a 90-day review period. That means we want you to use the program.

If you don't see dramatic results in just 90 days, you can send it back and we will issue a refund to your credit card.

We are committed to helping you find the love again.

Please use this link to read more about the programme. If you are ready to order, simply scroll to the bottom of the page and click either of the two ordering options.

Wishing you hope and healing for your marriage,

Eric...